8 reasons to stay independent

The ultimate ikhuyến mãi is to lớn use ones independence khổng lồ help others– not helping people by making them dependent on you but by freeing them from their dependencies


The ability lớn be independent is something that not everyone possesses. You need lớn be independent in order khổng lồ survive sầu in the world. Learning lớn tư vấn yourself is fundamental for any success you ever hope khổng lồ achieve sầu. At the over of the day, you only have yourself to lớn fall bachồng on, so it is exceedingly important to lớn be able to handle things on your own. It is all about being secure with who you are & what you believe in. It is extremely empowering knowing that you are in control of your own life & your own choices. It is much more beneficial lớn listen lớn the voice inside yourself rather than the berating opinions of others.

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We are unable to be independent for a variety of reasons: with fear at the forefront, the fear of being alone, the fear of rejection & fear of the future. More often than not, we rely on others far more than it is necessary by putting the fate of happiness in the hands of a significant other, thinking this will bring fulfilment. As we grow older, we need to learn how khổng lồ make the best decisions that allow us to live sầu our lives the way we want lớn. Developing into an autonomous person can be one of the most worthwhile outcomes we can strive for ourselves. We need khổng lồ learn how khổng lồ make decisions on our own.
For some reason, people think it is weird to lớn go see a movie alone. You can"t talk to lớn the person you go with anyway, so why not go by yourself? There are so many activities that can become more enjoyable by taking part in them alone. Wandering around the city you live sầu in can clear your mind off all the clutter it has been carrying around. Learning khổng lồ live & love sầu one"s own company is truly worth it.
Having the ability to be happy regardless of being in a relationship is an amazing attribute. People continue lớn wallow in detrimental relationships because they are scared of being on their own. Instead, they should relish in it & spend this time focusing on making themselves better people.
Make decisions by và for yourself, whatever they may be. Don"t ask for advice, bởi vì what you want và learn from your own mistakes. Many people are afraid khổng lồ think for themselves because that involves taking responsibility for their own lives. This is just one way people become dependent. We are born alone and we leave sầu the world alone, so we each have to lớn take responsibility for our lives at every step along the way. The value of independence is that it makes you a human being. Dependency requires lowering yourself khổng lồ a lesser animal, becoming a slave to lớn the choices of the people around you.

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When you have sầu independence, I believe the next step is to encourage the independence of others. Think your own thoughts, live your own life, & help others to lớn vị the same. Helping someone become independent is much more difficult than just helping them. It"s far easier just lớn write a cheque or give sầu compliments. It is much harder khổng lồ make that person grow. Giving aid without encouraging independence is often worse than not helping at all. When you foster dependency, you are limiting people from their potential.
The ultimate ideal is khổng lồ be independent và use that independence khổng lồ help other people. Not helping people by making them dependent on you. Helping people by freeing them from their dependencies. Don"t give sầu men fish to eat, teach them how to lớn fish. Wishing you a very fulfilling Independence Day in every possible way.
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